“From Want to Knowing”
Susan Fiandach and Connie Wake
“We learn with every reading” appears on the back cover of Everyday Conversations: The Student Guide to the Daily Medium – Unlocking Your 6th Sense, and it speaks to a core truth of psychic-medium service: this work must remain alive. A professional reading is not static or scripted; it evolves as spirit communication deepens, interpretation clarifies, and delivery becomes more attuned to the moment and the individual.
When a reading invites reflection—whether during the session or afterward—it offers the psychic-medium an opportunity to refine interpretation, so the information resonates more clearly for the client. From that clarity, the client gains insight—not instruction—allowing them to make choices aligned with their highest and best outcomes.
Both the reader and the client often arrive at a reading with a desire to resonate with the information being exchanged. Readers are familiar with moments when clients struggle with what they hear, especially when the information does not align with what they hoped for. This is particularly common around relationship questions—“Is he or she going to be in my life?”—where the emotional charge can influence how the message is received.
Here is where depth emerges.
When a client wants to hear something, the reading holds one level of value.
When a client is open to knowing something, even if it challenges expectations, the reading shifts into another dimension entirely.
The same distinction applies to the reader.
When a reader wants to say something—perhaps to reassure, soften, or meet an expectation—the service is diminished. When the reader knows something through authentic connection with the received information, the service gains integrity, depth, and trust.
This is why we teach our students:
“There is no wrong information—only misinterpretation.”
This principle encourages dialogue, clarification, and presence. It guides the reader to remain curious rather than conclusive, and it invites the client into a shared space of meaning rather than prediction. In that shared space, both reader and client move from want… to knowing—and the reading becomes a living exchange rather than a transactional moment.
ABOUT THE AUTHORS:
Susan Fiandach and Connie Wake are professional psychic-mediums, teachers of psychic-medium studies and co-authors of “Everyday Conversations: The Key to the Contemporary Medium – Unlocking the Myths” and “The Student Guide to the Daily Medium – Unlocking Your 6th Sense.”
Susan and Connie can be contacted through The Purple Door website - http://www.PurpleDoorSoulSource.com. All final content, perspectives and experiences of Susan Fiandach and Connie Wake with some language and structural support contributed by ChatGPT (OpenAI).
