Attuning to Vibration

by Susan Fiandach and Connie Wake

We are in an evolvement of understanding consciousness, mind-body, and the universe in general; namely, the concept that everything is energy. The energy-consciousness of all that is vibrates at frequencies we perceive and do not perceive, such as color, sound, etc.

We are transmitters and receivers of these vibes from the people, places, and things around us.

What do we do with them?  We engage them, but not what the vibes are doing to us…it’s what we are doing to the vibes!

In our society, we are obsessed with looking to the outside of ourselves for explanations, reasons, causes, and unfortunately, blame.  We can quickly become victims of our perceptions.  A successful way to move away from that is described in a quote by Wayne Dyer:  “Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.”

It’s pretty easy to get caught up in the “everything is energy” around us, that people, places and things emit negative energy, that chakras close, and the consciousness of energy out of the body (e.g., dead) are relegated to the rules of the physical.  That last point relates to people who pass under dramatic circumstances can “get stuck” here on earth, which is more of a spiritual belief than a fact.

We can say “we are energy” but then what?  It’s like saying, “the sun is yellow” but the sun is much more than yellow…with its light energy that allows life survive and thrive when we take it in and use it.

What we can do with all the vibes around us is to attune to those energies…to survive and thrive. Attune means to adapt to; to complement; to equalize.  These are all verbs…actions as the part in the experience that create…create a change…create a more and better outcome. 

Adapt – Adapt is the action of making adjustments, including a new thought, belief, or condition. Adjust to a self to a higher and fulfilling, purposeful, and abundant standard.  During an experience with energy movement, such as a space (or self) clearing, Reiki energy session, or meditation, we have the opportunity to experience a new thought/belief/condition that improves our well-being. It is not the outside force (e.g., the sage, crystal, or energy worker) but the adaptation power of you!  We can’t rest of that one-time fix, but to keep it going means to purposefully intend to adapt.

Complement – Complement is the action of adding to. This is a way that we can take a vibe and “walk with it” in our intentions, experiences, and outcomes. In the case of using crystals, oils, incenses in our rituals, meditations, and intentions, we coordinate our vibes, our actions, towards our goal.  We don’t put more power in the thing than the person holding it…complement your vibe is action taken with the vibe!

Equalize – Equalize is to balance out. This is an actionable way to handle the perception of receiving “bad/negative vibes” from a person, place, or thing. As the mind interprets the information of such vibes received, we have the opportunity—indeed the power—to balance out our reaction/outcome with good vibes!  For example, picking up a negative vibe of the person standing in line with you? Since you do not know their story, you are only interpreting based on your perception and frame of reference. Don’t judge the moment…being unconditional is the power of mental, emotional, and spiritual balance.  In this example, feel a bad vibe from a person?…just give them a smile! 

When vibes are received, we interpret, display, and then adapt, complement, or equalize the vibe within ourselves through our mind-body AND our free will and choice to intend, choose, do, experience. This process repeated present moment to present moment is the journey of expressing our best selves.

Attuning not only gives us a choice, it gives us the power.  Take in an energy and decide what to do with it. Through mindful focus we can adapt, complement, and equalize to the “…grandest version of the greatest vision you ever had about Who You Are” (Neale Donald Walsch)

ABOUT THE AUTHORS: Susan Fiandach and Connie Wake are owners of The Purple Door in Rochester, NY. They are professional psychic-mediums and teachers of psychic-medium studies on a mission to de-mystify our psychic sense. They are co-authors of “Everyday Conversations: The Key to the Contemporary Medium – Unlocking the Myths” and “The Student Guide to the Daily Medium – Unlocking Your 6th Sense.” They can be contacted through The Purple Door, at their new location: 3450 Winton Place, Rochester NY. 585-427-8110.   Visit their website -